Família, Espiritismo e hereditariedade
1. INTRODUÇÃO
No Dicionário Aurélio Século XXI, encontramos a definição de hereditariedade como a transmissão dos caracteres físicos ou morais de uma pessoa aos seus descendentes. Somos sabedores que muitas enfermidades como a diabetes, a hipertensão, a hemofilia, a polidactilia, entre outras, possuem características hereditárias, podendo o filho apresentar a mesma patologia que seus pais, ou seja, o genótipo dos pais determina a manifestação de certos males em seus descendentes.Entretanto, será possível a comunicação dos caracteres morais e espirituais de um indivíduo para seus filhos, apenas e tão somente pela transmissão dos genes? As unidades cromossômicas de cada indivíduo teriam a capacidade de alimentar toda uma geração ou uma descendência familiar com aspectos de personalidade e conduta? As semelhanças entre pais e filhos estariam encerradas somente ao aspecto físico ou abrangeria também o caráter intelectivo?
Essas e outras questões serão aqui discutidas à luz da doutrina Espírita, procurando as respostas na base familiar que constitui o grande alicerce da humanidade.
2. LIÇÕES DO EVANGELHO
A doutrina espírita elucida uma série de questões acerca da hereditariedade: “os laços de sangue não estabelecem necessariamente os laços espirituais. O corpo procede do corpo, mas o Espírito não procede do Espírito, porque este existia antes da formação do corpo. O pai não gera o espírito do filho: fornece-lhe apenas o envoltório corporal. Mas deve ajudar seu desenvolvimento intelectual e moral, para o fazer progredir”.[1]Unidos pelos vínculos familiares, os espíritos possuem relações advindas de outras existências. Há duas possibilidades: 1ª) podem ser espíritos afins, simpáticos entre si, em que é permitida a reencarnação sob o mesmo ambiente doméstico para tarefas pré-determinadas onde se objetiva a evolução dos seres; 2ª) espíritos que de alguma forma ainda possuem rusgas, débitos recíprocos contraídos no passado e que necessitam de ajustes e reparações na atual existência.
Dentro do círculo familiar é que encontraremos o exercício do perdão e do amor. Por intermédio da bênção do esquecimento do passado, espíritos que se odiavam e se digladiavam em existências anteriores, unidos em uma nova encarnação como parentes consangüíneos, são obrigados, por uma imposição social e humana, a desenvolver o respeito e afeto recíprocos.
Por isso, não é o sangue que unirá o sangue. Quantas famílias conhecemos totalmente desestruturadas, onde pais ondeiam os filhos e vice-versa. Se dependêssemos somente da hereditariedade genética isso não ocorreria. Mas aquilo que o espírito carrega consigo, de bom e de ruim, é o que determinará o bom relacionamento entre os seres unidos pelo grau de parentesco.
3. NOSSOS FILHOS
Como gostaríamos que nossos filhos fossem? É claro que desejamos em primeiríssimo lugar eles tenham saúde, sejam perfeitos e gozem da melhor paz e tranqüilidade que possam ter. Em segundo plano, desejamos que eles se destaquem. Desejamos que eles sejam os melhores alunos de sua sala de aulas, o mais educado e cordial de seus amigos, e até mesmo que seu time de futebol vença todas as partidas ou que seja o primeiro colocado na competição de natação.Muitas vezes até, inconscientemente, vencemos nossas próprias frustrações obrigando nossos filhos a realizarem tarefas que nós não conseguimos desempenhá-las quando crianças.
Até o presente momento, estamos tendo uma visão inteiramente restrita ao materialismo onde, superada a preocupação com doenças hereditárias e saúde perfeita, nos apegamos tão somente ao que o cotidiano de nossas vidas oferece para o crescimento do ser humano. E isso é muitíssimo pouco.
Khalil Gibran nos diz o seguinte: “vossos filhos não são vossos filhos. São os filhos e as filhas da ânsia da vida por si mesma. Vêm através de vós, mas não de vós. E embora vivam convosco, não vos pertencem. Podeis outorgar-lhes vosso amor, mas não vossos pensamentos, porque eles têm seus próprios pensamentos. Podeis abrigar seus corpos, mas não suas almas. Pois suas almas moram na mansão do amanhã, que vós não podeis visitar nem mesmo em sonho. Podeis esforçar-vos por ser como eles, mas não procureis faze-los como vós, porque a vida não anda para trás e não se demora com os dias passados. Vós sois os arcos dos quais vossos filhos são arremessados como flechas vivas. O arqueiro mira o alvo na senda do infinito e vos estica com toda a sua força par que suas flechas se projetem, rápidas e para longe. Que o vosso encurvamento na mão do arqueiro seja vossa alegria, pois assim como ele ama a flecha que voa, ama também o arco que permanece estável”.[2]
Ora, isso significa que somos todos espíritos livres, criados simples e ignorantes, e estamos sendo guiados a todo instante para o caminho da perfeição.
Nossos filhos também são espíritos livres. Possuem a semelhança de seus pais, mas apenas geneticamente. As características cromossômicas são transmitidas por intermédio do sangue, fazendo-se apresentar semelhanças quanto à cor da pele, cor dos olhos, cor dos cabelos, etc. O que o espírito traz armazenado em seu perispírito[3] é algo totalmente individual e alheio, independente de qualquer influência de seus pais. Obviamente, não estamos unidos pelos laços consangüíneos por mero acaso. Há um objetivo maior de aprendizado e de respeito para estarmos unidos pelos laços de família, seja como marido e esposa, seja como pais e filhos. Todavia, isso não significa que não possuímos diferenças e que necessitamos de ajustes que serão efetuados dentro do convívio familiar.
Nós, enquanto pais, temos um papel extremamente importante. É preciso diferenciar educador de evangelizador. Podemos dizer que evangelizador é gênero, quanto que educador é espécie. Educar, é simplesmente ensinar a distinguir o certo do errado, diferenciar o bem do mal. E por muitas vezes isso não é nem ao menos devidamente explicado aos nossos filhos. “Pai, posso fazer isso?”. E o pai responde: “Não!!!”. O filho insiste: “por que não?”. E a imposição de vontades não explica nada: “Porque eu não quero, porque eu não deixo”. Por outro lado, evangelizar é o verdadeiro papel a ser desempenhado por todos os pais. Evangelizar é detectar no espírito que vos foi confiado como filho, o que ele traz de bom e o que ele traz de ruim. Procurar incentivar suas qualidades e suas faculdades advindas das várias existências que possuiu e alimenta-las com muito amor e muita atenção. Procurar também detectar quais as más inclinações que esse espírito traz consigo e procurar aniquila-las, destruí-las, para que esse espírito, ainda nos primórdios de sua encarnação, possa crescer na senda do progresso espiritual e no amadurecimento da vossa consciência de Ser Eterno.
O estímulo é o grande veículo para conduzir o espírito ao seu adiantamento moral. Quantas “parafernalhas” são produzidas e transmitidas pelos meios televisivos, sem que ao menos possamos optar por qual programação a assistir? Quantos livros infantis de alto cabedal, são esquecidos nas prateleiras, estimulando a ociosidade de mentes jovens e abertas ao conhecimento? Devemos estimular mais, incentivar mais. Somos o leme de nossos filhos. Somos o único exemplo que eles possuem dentro de um círculo de convívio ainda restrito, que é o ambiente familiar. Os filhos imitam seus pais a todo instante. Se os pais proferem palavras de baixo calão, seus filhos irão repetir; se os genitores possuem vidas totalmente incompatíveis com os ensinamentos cristãos, que caminhos percorrerão os seus filhos?
É a hora de mudanças. Ensinar através do exemplo. Como nos ensina a proposta de evangelização de espíritos do Colégio Allan Kardec, em Sacramento – MG: “trata-se de uma postura de Eurípedes Barsanulfo para auxiliar o espírito a caminhar com mais segurança no seu processo evolutivo. É uma postula embasada no conhecimento kardequiano, levando o espírito à consciência plena do estado em que se encontra. A conscientização desse estado o fará encarar a necessidade evolutiva com responsabilidade e discernimento. Compreender o que é ser espírito e viver como tal, isso é, em pensamento e vontade”.[4]
Evangelização e exemplo, eis o caminho a ser trilhado pelos pais para que auxiliem seus filhos a acumular riquezas espirituais em suas vidas.
Que o Mestre Jesus abençoe todas as famílias de nosso planeta, que é a célula matriz do aperfeiçoamento humano!
[1] Evangelho Segundo o Espiritismo, capítulo XIV (Honra a teu pai e a tua mãe), Edições FEESP, p. 187
[2] “O Profeta”, Gibran Khalil Gibran, Associação Cultural Internacional Gibran, Rio de Janeiro - RJ
[3] Envoltório leve, imponderável, que serve de laço intermediário entre o espírito e o corpo (Curso preparatório de Espiritismo, Federação Espírita do Estado de São Paulo, Edições FEESP, ano 2002).
[4] Extraído do site www.cak.com.br (Colégio Allan Kardec)
Fábio Gallinaro
Fonte: Portal do Espírito
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1. INTRODUCTION
In Dictionary Aurelio XXI Century, we find the definition of inheritance as the transmission of physical or moral character of a person to their descendants. We knowing that many diseases such as diabetes, hypertension, hemophilia, Polydactyly, among others, have inherited traits, allowing the child to present the same condition as their parents, or parental genotype determines the manifestation of certain ailments in their descendants.
However, it will be possible to communicate the spiritual and moral character of an individual for their children, just and only for the transmission of genes? The units chromosome of each individual would have the ability to feed a generation or descent familiar with aspects of personality and behavior? The similarities between parents and children would be closed only to the physical aspect and also cover the intellective character?
These and other issues will be discussed here in light of the Spiritist doctrine, seeking answers in family background which is the great foundation of humanity.
2. LESSONS FROM THE GOSPEL
The spiritual doctrine elucidates a series of questions about heredity: "blood ties does not necessarily establish the spiritual bonds. The body is of the body, but not of the Holy Spirit, because it existed before the formation of the body. The father does not generate the spirit of her son provides just the body wrap. But it should help his intellectual and moral development, to take it forward ". [1]
United by family ties, the spirits have links coming from other stocks. There are two possibilities: 1) may be kindred spirits, friendly to each other, which is allowed reincarnation under the same environment for domestic tasks predetermined where objectively the evolution of beings; 2nd) spirits that somehow still have raids, reciprocal debts incurred in the past that require adjustments and repairs on current existence.
Within the family is that we will find the exercise of forgiveness and love. Through the blessing of forgetting the past, spirits who hated and fought each other in previous lives, united in a new incarnation as blood relatives, are bound by a levy social and human develop mutual respect and affection.
So it is not the blood that will unite the blood. How many families know totally dysfunctional, where parents dimpling the children and vice versa. If we relied only on the genetic inheritance that does not happen. But what carries the spirit, good and bad, is what will determine the proper relationship between human beings united by kinship.
3. OUR CHILDREN
How would our children be? Of course we want first and foremost they have health, they are perfect and enjoying the best peace and quiet they may have. In the background, we wish them stand out. We hope that they are the best students in her classroom, the polite and cordial friends, and even your football team win every game and that is first placed in the swimming competition.
Often even unconsciously, we won our own frustrations forcing our children accomplish tasks that we can not perform them as children.
To date, we are taking an entirely restricted to materialism where, overcome concern about hereditary diseases and perfect health, so we cling only to the everyday lives of our offers for human growth. And that's too little.
Khalil Gibran tells us the following: "your children are not your children. They are the sons and daughters of Life's longing for itself. They come through you but not from you. And though they are with you, you do not belong. You may give them your love but not your thoughts, because they have their own thoughts. You may house their bodies but not their souls. For their souls dwell in the house of tomorrow, which you can not visit, not even in a dream. You may strive to be like them, but seek not to make them like you, because life goes not backward nor tarries with yesterday. You are the bows from which your children as living arrows are sent forth. The archer sees the mark upon the path of the infinite, and He bends you with his might pair that His arrows may go swift and far. Let your bending in the archer's hand be for gladness, for even as he loves the arrow that flies, loves also the bow that is stable. "[2]
Now this means that we are all free spirits, created simple and ignorant, and we are being guided at all times to the path of perfection.
Our children are also free spirits. Have the similarity of their parents, but only genetically. The chromosomal characteristics are transmitted through the blood, making up present similarities regarding skin color, eye color, hair color, etc.. What brings the spirit stored on your perisprit [3] is something totally individual and others, independent of any influence of their parents. Obviously, we are not united by blood ties by chance. There is a larger goal of learning and respect for being united by family ties, either as husband and wife, whether as parents and children. However, that does not mean we do not have differences and adjustments that need to be made within the family environment.
We, as parents, we have an extremely important role. One should differentiate educator evangelizer. We can say that evangelizing is gender, as an educator is that species. Educating, is simply to teach right from wrong, good from evil. And often it is not not even properly explained to our children. "Dad, can I do this?". And the father replies, "No!". The son insists: "why not?". And the imposition of wills explains nothing: "Because I do not want to, because I do not leave." On the other hand, evangelization is the real role to be played by all parents. To evangelize is to detect the spirit entrusted to you as a child, he brings good and bad it brings. Find encourage their qualities and their faculties resulting from various stocks he owned and feeds them with much love and attention. Search also detect what the evil inclinations that spirit brings and look annihilates them, destroy them, for that spirit, still in its early incarnation, can grow on the path of spiritual progress and maturation of your consciousness Eternal Being .
The stimulus is a great vehicle to drive the spirit to its moral advancement. How many "parafernalhas" are produced and transmitted by the television media, without the least we can choose which program to watch? How many children's books top leather, the shelves are forgotten by stimulating the idle young minds open to knowledge? We should encourage more, encourage more. We are the rudder of our children. We are the only example they have circled conviviality still restricted, which is the family atmosphere. The children imitate their parents all the time. If parents utter profanity, your kids will repeat if the parents have lives completely incompatible with Christian teaching, which will travel the paths their children?
It's time for a change. Teach by example. As in the proposed teaches evangelism spirits College Allan Kardec in Sacramento - MG: "it is an attitude of Euripides Barsanulfo to assist the spirit to walk more safely in their evolutionary process. It is grounded in the knowledge postulates Kardecian, leading to full consciousness the spirit of the state in which it lies. The awareness that the state will face the evolutionary necessity with responsibility and discernment. Understand what is spirit and live as such, it is in thought and will ". [4]
Evangelization and example, here is the path to be taken by parents to assist their children to accumulate wealth in their spiritual lives.
That the Master Jesus bless all the families of our planet, which is the cell matrix human improvement!
[1] Gospel According to Spiritism, Chapter XIV (Honor thy father and thy mother), Issues FEESP, p. 187
[2] "The Prophet", Khalil Gibran, Gibran International Cultural Association, Rio de Janeiro - RJ
[3] Wrap light, weightless, serving loop intermediary between the spirit and the body (Preparatory course of Spiritualism, Spiritualist Federation of São Paulo, FEESP Editions, 2002).
[4] Taken from the site www.cak.com.br (College Allan Kardec)
Fábio Gallinaro
Source: Portal of the Spirit
Fábio Gallinaro
Fonte: Portal do Espírito
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Family, Spiritualism and heredity
In Dictionary Aurelio XXI Century, we find the definition of inheritance as the transmission of physical or moral character of a person to their descendants. We knowing that many diseases such as diabetes, hypertension, hemophilia, Polydactyly, among others, have inherited traits, allowing the child to present the same condition as their parents, or parental genotype determines the manifestation of certain ailments in their descendants.
However, it will be possible to communicate the spiritual and moral character of an individual for their children, just and only for the transmission of genes? The units chromosome of each individual would have the ability to feed a generation or descent familiar with aspects of personality and behavior? The similarities between parents and children would be closed only to the physical aspect and also cover the intellective character?
These and other issues will be discussed here in light of the Spiritist doctrine, seeking answers in family background which is the great foundation of humanity.
2. LESSONS FROM THE GOSPEL
The spiritual doctrine elucidates a series of questions about heredity: "blood ties does not necessarily establish the spiritual bonds. The body is of the body, but not of the Holy Spirit, because it existed before the formation of the body. The father does not generate the spirit of her son provides just the body wrap. But it should help his intellectual and moral development, to take it forward ". [1]
United by family ties, the spirits have links coming from other stocks. There are two possibilities: 1) may be kindred spirits, friendly to each other, which is allowed reincarnation under the same environment for domestic tasks predetermined where objectively the evolution of beings; 2nd) spirits that somehow still have raids, reciprocal debts incurred in the past that require adjustments and repairs on current existence.
Within the family is that we will find the exercise of forgiveness and love. Through the blessing of forgetting the past, spirits who hated and fought each other in previous lives, united in a new incarnation as blood relatives, are bound by a levy social and human develop mutual respect and affection.
So it is not the blood that will unite the blood. How many families know totally dysfunctional, where parents dimpling the children and vice versa. If we relied only on the genetic inheritance that does not happen. But what carries the spirit, good and bad, is what will determine the proper relationship between human beings united by kinship.
3. OUR CHILDREN
How would our children be? Of course we want first and foremost they have health, they are perfect and enjoying the best peace and quiet they may have. In the background, we wish them stand out. We hope that they are the best students in her classroom, the polite and cordial friends, and even your football team win every game and that is first placed in the swimming competition.
Often even unconsciously, we won our own frustrations forcing our children accomplish tasks that we can not perform them as children.
To date, we are taking an entirely restricted to materialism where, overcome concern about hereditary diseases and perfect health, so we cling only to the everyday lives of our offers for human growth. And that's too little.
Khalil Gibran tells us the following: "your children are not your children. They are the sons and daughters of Life's longing for itself. They come through you but not from you. And though they are with you, you do not belong. You may give them your love but not your thoughts, because they have their own thoughts. You may house their bodies but not their souls. For their souls dwell in the house of tomorrow, which you can not visit, not even in a dream. You may strive to be like them, but seek not to make them like you, because life goes not backward nor tarries with yesterday. You are the bows from which your children as living arrows are sent forth. The archer sees the mark upon the path of the infinite, and He bends you with his might pair that His arrows may go swift and far. Let your bending in the archer's hand be for gladness, for even as he loves the arrow that flies, loves also the bow that is stable. "[2]
Now this means that we are all free spirits, created simple and ignorant, and we are being guided at all times to the path of perfection.
Our children are also free spirits. Have the similarity of their parents, but only genetically. The chromosomal characteristics are transmitted through the blood, making up present similarities regarding skin color, eye color, hair color, etc.. What brings the spirit stored on your perisprit [3] is something totally individual and others, independent of any influence of their parents. Obviously, we are not united by blood ties by chance. There is a larger goal of learning and respect for being united by family ties, either as husband and wife, whether as parents and children. However, that does not mean we do not have differences and adjustments that need to be made within the family environment.
We, as parents, we have an extremely important role. One should differentiate educator evangelizer. We can say that evangelizing is gender, as an educator is that species. Educating, is simply to teach right from wrong, good from evil. And often it is not not even properly explained to our children. "Dad, can I do this?". And the father replies, "No!". The son insists: "why not?". And the imposition of wills explains nothing: "Because I do not want to, because I do not leave." On the other hand, evangelization is the real role to be played by all parents. To evangelize is to detect the spirit entrusted to you as a child, he brings good and bad it brings. Find encourage their qualities and their faculties resulting from various stocks he owned and feeds them with much love and attention. Search also detect what the evil inclinations that spirit brings and look annihilates them, destroy them, for that spirit, still in its early incarnation, can grow on the path of spiritual progress and maturation of your consciousness Eternal Being .
The stimulus is a great vehicle to drive the spirit to its moral advancement. How many "parafernalhas" are produced and transmitted by the television media, without the least we can choose which program to watch? How many children's books top leather, the shelves are forgotten by stimulating the idle young minds open to knowledge? We should encourage more, encourage more. We are the rudder of our children. We are the only example they have circled conviviality still restricted, which is the family atmosphere. The children imitate their parents all the time. If parents utter profanity, your kids will repeat if the parents have lives completely incompatible with Christian teaching, which will travel the paths their children?
It's time for a change. Teach by example. As in the proposed teaches evangelism spirits College Allan Kardec in Sacramento - MG: "it is an attitude of Euripides Barsanulfo to assist the spirit to walk more safely in their evolutionary process. It is grounded in the knowledge postulates Kardecian, leading to full consciousness the spirit of the state in which it lies. The awareness that the state will face the evolutionary necessity with responsibility and discernment. Understand what is spirit and live as such, it is in thought and will ". [4]
Evangelization and example, here is the path to be taken by parents to assist their children to accumulate wealth in their spiritual lives.
That the Master Jesus bless all the families of our planet, which is the cell matrix human improvement!
[1] Gospel According to Spiritism, Chapter XIV (Honor thy father and thy mother), Issues FEESP, p. 187
[2] "The Prophet", Khalil Gibran, Gibran International Cultural Association, Rio de Janeiro - RJ
[3] Wrap light, weightless, serving loop intermediary between the spirit and the body (Preparatory course of Spiritualism, Spiritualist Federation of São Paulo, FEESP Editions, 2002).
[4] Taken from the site www.cak.com.br (College Allan Kardec)
Fábio Gallinaro
Source: Portal of the Spirit
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